Relationship counsel

THE REASON WHY PEOPLE GET THEMSELVES INTO WRONG RELATIONSHIP AND MARRIAGE.

Many people got themselves into wrong relationship and marriage simply they fail to ask God before they enter.
God has the way he direct his children! Therefore every child of God is expected to ask God for direction in all matter of life including relationship and marriage.

When you fail to ask God for direction, you will end up in taken your personal option.

A lot of people use eye gage in selecting the kind of person that they want to get married to. It is unfortunate that eye gage has being failing a lot of people.

It is God that know the heart of the person you don't know;  therefore  ask him.
There are a lot of pretender even in the church of God; they pretend to be a child of God in the church in order to get a God fearing man or a woman into their life why they themselves doesn't have the fear of God in their life.

Good looking Face and dressing can be deceitful my friends.

People go a long way to pretend in order to get what they want in life.

Every guys in the street is not made for you, there is a particular one that is made for you; therefore ask God to show you the very one that is made for you. In the same line, it is not every ladies out there that is made for you.

God know the beginning and the end of everyone on earth; therefore ask God that knows the beginning and the end of that lady and the guy to direct your way in the perfect direction.

2 Love of materialism. This very point goes to both ladies and guys. A lot of people go into wrong relationship and marriage because of materialism Instead of  God direction and love.
Many people go into it because of personal gain and selfishness and as a result, they are made to suffer for their wrong action.

3 influence of parent or friends.

A lot of people went into wrong relationship and marriage because of influence of their parent and friends. Some parent force relationship and marriage on their children which is not suppose to be so.
Some people also allow their friends to influence their life in the choice of relationship and marriage;
Knowingly fully well that any choice you made for relationship or marriage will be for  your  betterment when you made it right and for your pain when you made it wrong. Therefore don't let someone make a choice for you either for relationship or marriage.

You can only listen to Godly advice either from godly parent and friends.

4 fear of being left out.
A lot of people went into wrong relationship and marriage base on fear of being left out without relationship or marriage.
This very act of fear has cause problems to many lives in relationship and marriage.

Relationship or marriage is not a thing to rush into; when you rush, you will rush out. The patients you need in relationship and marriage is more than the one you in  while waiting for God direction either for relationship or marriage. take your time to seek the face of God for right direction.

A wrong relationship or marriage can lead to lost of destiny and life. When you get marriage to a person that cannot accommodate your vision or purpose for your life;  your vision or purpose for your life got destroy. Your purpose for life should determine the kind of person you go into relationship or marriage with.

Compatibility is also very important in chosen a relationship or marriage. The question you should ask yourself before you say yes to him or her for relationship or marriage is are we compatible in purpose and in direction? You can just marry a man or a woman that you will begging to love things of God if you yourself is a child of God.
The fear of being left out as single has cause a lot of trouble to many lives. Some do say all my mate are into one relationship or the other. The plan of God for your life is different from the rest of your mate!
Other do say that all their mate have gotten married and having children. Yes it may be so; but God has the map of every life different.
Therefore learn how to be patients and wait on God in prayer.

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